Just be Yourself

Assalamulaikum

Sebenarnya, aku tengah study instrument ni wahaha. Chop jap ek. Rase nak menulis :P

Kita semua ini ada cap jari yang berbeza kan dari satu sama lain. Sorang pon tak sama cap jari dia.

That's mean Allah memang ciptakan setiap individu tu berbeza.

With different characteristics, different personality

You don't need to be someone else.

Kadang-kadang ada orang rasa rendah diri diri dia macam gini, macam gitu. Which sebenarnya dia takut herself will not be accepted by the crowd. So she tend to follow others which she thinks, perangai yang everybody pleased. (He, in the case of berader, heh)

Example:

Situasi: Meeting program

A: Okay jom kita taaruf dulu. Just name, course and post.

B: Saya Amir, Medic 2nd year, Prep & Tech

C: Saya Wani, Engine 2nd year, Special Task

D: aik diorang ni, orang suruh gitaw nama, kos dengan post je. siap gitaw year sekali(dalam hati)

E: Zulfahmi, Biotech 3rd year, Treasurer


(tiba giliran D)

D: err, Zulaika, Dentist 3rd year, Pub & Pro

Haa, tengok! She tend to do what most people do.

Sama jugak dalam keadaan yang macam, "okay semua kena bagi ucapan!"

Situasi itu akan buat orang fikir, ha aku kena cakap macam ni supaya macam ni..

Bila jadi macam tu, seseorang dah tak jadi diri dia sendiri dah

My point is, situasi di mana someone try to make others talking in order to test her/his ability on something is not effective. Seriously. Just believe in one's potential.  Everybody has their own potential. It is just, it's not same for everyone. Think again, why need to be same?

We dont need second Siti Nur Haliza in Malaysia. Kalau ada pon orang nak tiru jadi macam Siti, akhirnya dia akan dicemuh saja because dia tak ada originality.

So apa yang perlu ialah to create that selesa zone, where everybody can be their self. No need to create environment which, "lets see which one of you is better". Nope, i really do not think it is effective. Either as a leader, or as a teacher, or as a faci or as a tuto or anything else it could be.

I've been in one programme, which i rate it as a 5 star programme.

Programme tu program motivasi, which i could say 95% participants responds to the speaker willingly. I mean the speaker able to make 95% of the audience to respond, (either answer his questions or participating) whole-heartedly.

Yeah, he use system giving star to yourself. Sape sape yang angkat tangan,bangun dan jawab soalan boleh dapat star. Dengar macam cliche and kanak kanak punya je kan, tapi percaya atau tidak, memang semua berebut-rebut nak angkat tangan sebab nak dapat bintang. Because it is fun. He doesnt give any pressure to the audience, making them feel very comfortable in that programme.

Biasanya lah kan, spekaer punyalah payah nak dapat respond dari audience. Sampai ada yang nak kena tawarkan duit lah, untuk orang responds. But yang ni, he just use star system, tak keluar duit satu sen pon. Tapi orang berebut-rebut nak participate. Woahh, debaak. Serious.

So just eliminate the norm of "compete tak kena tempat" style. It despise me.

By the way, kita pon harus stop judging people. It is not very healthy ;P

Tu je lah stakat ni, nak sambung study. Hehe. Dada.